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Cinderella and retail !

Wednesday, May 27th, 2009

Cinderella and retail

Cinderella and retail

We all know the story of Cinderella, its an inspiring and heartwarming story. But any idealised version of what we should do, doesn’t really come close to how it really is, or even how it might evolve as time goes on.

To continue the Cinderella analogy, we all want to find our Prince Charming, and put on the beautiful glass slipper and live the fairy tale. We all want the love story !

But idealised love and real love are not the same thing, just as the idea of having a shop and the reality of having a shop are not the same thing.

Falling in love is easy, putting on the glass slipper is easy, but being in love is harder and making it work day after day, year after year is much harder. Sustaining the dream is the difficult part.

Getting the keys to your first shop is usually surprisingly easy, fitting it out and choosing the products is exciting, but it’s just the beginning, not the end.

Getting a shop is the easy part, like putting on the glass slipper. The rest takes hard work – hard work to sustain the enthusiasm, motivate the staff, check on the competition, find new and exciting products, keep up to date on new trends and market your business.

Just like the Cinderella story, someone missed out on telling us that life can be unfair, big local businesses can close, town centres can evolve, and not in a good way, competition can open up next door, and economies don’t always work in your favour.

So, what are we to do ? The only option is to choose it the way it is…. After all it isn’t any different to how it is. Then go to work on making it the way we’d like it to be and that’s a serious business decision.

True love is not a temporary thing, it comes with time, it’s not a Cinderella story. It’s a story of commitment, and doing the little things well, with a light heart, not because you have to do them, because you want to do them.

Naturally it’s the same for owning a shop and running a shop. Most of the hard work is behind the scenes, but its vital, and its vital that you maintain your passion for your business, because when the passion starts to fade it’s obvious to everyone……

Happiness is a buffet dinner…!

Monday, May 25th, 2009

Happiness is a buffet dinner...!

Happiness is a buffet dinner...!

Happiness is a fleeting and inexact thing, but we all know when we have it, or when we feel it, even if its hard to put into words. But what is happiness and why are we talking about it in a business blog?

Achieving your own happiness is the best measure of how well you are living your life and enjoying your relationships. You can learn how to be happier and more fulfilled in everything you do and the end result of this is that everything around you will work more smoothly. It all begins and ends with us !

We’re all different…

Happiness in life is rather like a buffet at a really good hotel. If 100 people went up to the buffet and chose the food they wanted to eat in the quantity and mix that they felt would be most pleasing to them, then every plate would be different. A husband and wife going up to the buffet would each come back with plates that looked completely different. Happiness is the same.

Each of us needs a particular combination of ingredients to feel the very best that we can about ourselves.

Continuing with my buffet analogy, consider that each meal time when you visit it you’ll be selecting different food, or maybe you’ll be the person who has the same meal day in and day out without getting bored of it? But if you do try different food, then you’ll see that what you want changes by the meal, if not by the day….. so in the same vein, what we want to make us happy can change daily……

So why are we having a discourse on happiness in a business blog? Its because we’re all human beings and its all inter-related. We don’t act as automatons and if we are at least vaguely aware of what makes us happy then we have more chance of keeping ourselves on track instead of wondering off into the ether and making decisions that are not going to ultimately make us happy…

Sometimes its deciding to be bigger, open a new shop, take on more staff, and sometimes its deciding to be smaller or take on a new project, its completely individual and it changes – so we need to have some kind of a plan to make sure we’re in tune with ourselves and not just in a mad rat race that we don’t really want to win anyway….

What’s on your plate right now ?