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Pro-active v’s Reactive

Thursday, October 29th, 2009

Proactive or reactive ?

Proactive or reactive ?

Pro-active v’s Reactive

Strangely enough, this is a definition I only thought about recently when my personal circumstances changed enough to make my usual manner of doing things begin to look a little ropey !

In business its pretty much accepted that proaction rather than reaction is what it takes to be successful – Moto’s like “seize the day” and “go for it” perfectly illustrate this. But being proactive is a skill like any other and it has to be developed over time. Its rather like just going to the gym once, there won’t be much benefit and you’ll probably strain something. So being proactive just the once will have much the same effect, you need to build up a system and a support network for it.

The definition of proactive is planning ahead and anticipating problems. Whilst the definition of reactive is waiting for problems to appear before dealing with them.

If you think about it, how much of your day are you a reaction to what is going on around you ? Grumpy customers? Having to do jobs that you don’t relish doing ? Calling the council ? Tackling staff about things they do that drive you crazy ? Setting budgets ? Dealing with things that you don’t like dealing with (whatever they may be for you ?)

Not dealing with things that you know are looming causes Stress, because at the back of your mind, you know its coming anyway….! Its also pretty unsatisfying, and leaves you in a kind of limbo where you can’t make decisions because you haven’t looked forward enough.

Being proactive can help eliminate problems before they appear, and since you can plan how to deal with things, you can act faster before all is lost ! Its also, believe it or not, less stressful, as taking control of any situation puts you in the driving seat, not the back seat, while the car slowly slides into a skid !

Being proative means planning what you want to do with your store, your staff, your stock, having budgets in place, advertising and marketing plans, and more importantly back up plans for when things just don’t go the way they’re meant to….. It takes a little longer and is a bit more effort, but the rewards are that you are in control, not buffeted by other peoples demands and caprices.

Being reactive is normally fairly stressful. You don’t know what’s coming up next, so you have to be ready for anything, and you’re not in full control of your life or your business.

So, just for fun, have a quick tot up of how much of your day is spent being proactive – or heading off next weeks or next months problems – so you’ll have a peaceful Christmas trading season - Go on, take the challenge and write down the list of 10 things that you know you should be dealing with, that you’ve been putting off :

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Now, make a plan for carrying out number one………. Keep it simple, put it in your diary and tell everyone what you’re going to do – that way you have to do it !

Strangely enough this simple system works almost all of the time

Good luck

The four D’s - overcoming procrastination.

Wednesday, June 24th, 2009

The four D's

The four D's

Procrastination is a life sucker – you know what you should be doing but you find a gazillion reasons to be doing something else, all the while at the back of your mind is the nagging voice telling you that you really should be doing whatever it was you are putting off !

In the last post we looked at the five “personality types” for procrastination. So I’m sure you found yourself among them, but now that we know why we do it, what can we do about it ?

Here are some things you can do:

1. Recognise when you are doing this and make a commitment to monitor this trait and NOT do this anymore.

2. Put a big sticky note in front of your face at your desk or shopcounter if you have to but stop it. It’s not doing you any good.

3. Look at the benefits you get from doing it, there’s always a pay off for our actions, even if its not immediately visible.

4. Stop excusing procrastination from those around you

5. Develop a personal commitment to action

6. Prioritize your life – have you taken too much on, are you excited by the opportunities or lost in a blizzard of “To do’s”

If you’re looking for a way to work out what you should be doing, the four D’s are a good guide. Do it, Diarise it, Delegate it or Dump it !

You can use this little mantra as you open post, work out who’s supposed to be doing what, or just for all those jobs on a list somewhere that you just know you’re never going to do – whether it be learn French, take a mechanics course or clear out the storage shed.

If you know at the back of your mind that you’re not going to do it, but you put it on the list because you think you should – Give yourself a break and take it off ! Admit its never going to happen, and put your energy into something that you do really want to do !

If you go through your list, there should be things that can be delegated – Ok, not all for sure, but some, and it’ll give your staff a chance to learn new things, and free up some time for you to learn some new skills for all those things that are on the list that you really don’t know how to do….

Or hire someone who does know how to do them, loves doing them and lets you concentrate on the things you’re good at, instead of slogging away at the stuff you hate…

That’s a winning strategy !

Procrastination !

Monday, June 22nd, 2009

Procrastination !

Procrastination !

Procrastination ! Even the word is long…! Dragged out, lots of syllables…!

The Definition of Procrastination is:

The failure to do what needs to be done when it needs to be done.

Procrastination affects us all at different times and for different reasons. But the end result is that is sucks our energy and leaves us feeling listless. We know what we should be doing, but we do something else instead, or we do nothing instead, but at the back of our minds, we still know that we’re cheating ourselves…!

There’s 5 causes or personality types in Procrastination:

1.Perfectionist - Someone who has to have everything ‘perfect’ before starting the new thing, implementing their new idea or launching a new store, product or service.

2.Dreamer - Someone who lives in their big vision and doesn’t do too much about the little details.

3.Crisis Maker - Someone who likes to create drama in their lives or wait until the very last minute to do a certain task or who works well under pressure

4.Defy-er - Someone who doesn’t like to do things by the rules, a bit of a rogue agent

5.Over-doer - Someone who does things over and over again without actually taking action or implementing something – rather like an over-analyser or over planner.

Do you recognise yourself in there ? I’m definitely a number one, I’m the type that has to clean the desk and sharpen all the pencils before I can return a phone call ! Yes, feel free to shake your head, as it is mystifying to all around me too !

So why do we do it?

• Is it because we’re lazy?

• Is it because we aren’t sure what we should do to go forward?

• Is it because deep down, we’re not totally confident that we can accomplish the task?

• Is it because we don’t enjoy the task and there are other more fun things to do instead?

• Is it because it’s a “should” on our list, but not something that we actually want to do ?

The answer is of course a mixture of the above…

Sorry there’s no one stop panacea for procrastination, but if you look through your unfinished “to do list” you’ll be able to figure out what the blockages are for you ! (more about this on Wednesday )